Saturday, May 31, 2008

The paradox of our time

I'm posting this to find out how carefully you're reading this blog.

Originally written in 1995 by a pastor later accused of molesting some of his congregation, this piece has been variously attributed to a witness to the Columbine shootings, Jeff Dickson, George Carlin (who vehemently denied writing it and called it a piece of sentimental crap), and Anonymous. What do you think of this, Dear Reader? Does it explain our world better? Do you find any truth to it? Or do you agree rather with George Carlin? Post a comment!


The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one-night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.

Remember to spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember to say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

This does not explain the world but
certainly states some truths that
exist within our world.

Anonymous said...

Hi Paul,

Too busy to make a comment! Just kidding. As usual, there is not an easy answer as to why some of those comments are true. The truth is, there are a lot of forces that contribute to that lifestyle. Some connections include: more people means more competition, more competition means more technology, more technology means more isolation, more technology means more complicated, more complicated and more isolation means less time for the other things that really matter. I wish it was that easy to change back to a simpler time, but I'm afraid we're past the tipping point.

Steve